Dear Girls Tips To Keeping Your Man Closer.

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Before you fell in love, did you ever think that there would be a person in this world who could make you feel so happy and complete? Did you ever realize that just making this person smile could bring so much happiness into your own life? Love is a wonderful experience, because it’s the only emotion in the world that can bring you happiness when you give something away. Every time we feel an overwhelming surge of affection for our lovers, we want to do something special for them, just to let them know how much they mean to us and how much we care about them. And as the months and years pass by in the relationship, you may start to take each other for granted, or start to believe that excessive shows of affection in love is just corny.  But you need to change this now. Just because you’ve been in love for several years doesn’t mean you have to stop expressing your love through romantic gestures.

Remember, the more often you try to please your lover or show them just how much you care through your gestures, the happier you’ll feel. And the love for each other too, will bloom into a perfect romance that’ll fill both your lives with happiness and meaning. It’s the happy feeling that fills within you when you make the effort to please someone else without prioritizing your own interests, and putting their interests before yours.

Deep down, they may love women, but there are times when they find women really annoying. Ask any man and they’re sure to mention some of these habits that they hate about women. So, run through those points women and make sure you avoid these big mistakes.

Jealousy mostly happens when women see their partner with other attractive women around them. If you too feel jealous about that, you’re absolutely normal. But when your jealousy goes to an agonizing degree it could put you in danger of losing cherished relationship. Some women allow the fang of jealousy to cling to their hearts, trying to tear it out and devour it. But, there’s a better way of letting your man know that you do not like him checking out other women. If you constantly bring up feelings of jealousy, it can often lead to a fight between the two of you and can ruin your relationship. Ignore those jealousy pangs, we say, even if you are longing to gouge out the eyes of the woman holding your man. Jealousy and possessiveness are not attractive qualities. They speak to your lack of self-esteem and your lack of trust.

Do we really nag as a men? Yes we do and especially when hit donw by a flu or some sort of sickness and go back to being babies, however we also do hate nagging women, God know why.  What do men hate most in their women? Nagging. This is one trait no man loves. Some women love nagging. They complain ceaselessly. Women expect men to move it the minute they’re asked to do something. It doesn’t work that way. You’ve done your job of asking your partner to do something, so leave it to him. Nagging is like corporal punishment in high school; after a while the body adapts to it. Then it stops being effective. Remember, nagging is relationship destroyer. There’s nothing worse to a man than a woman who constantly find fault in everything her partner does. Don’t be that woman.

It was even cursed during the centuries of years ago. Man himself in whichever mountain he had climbed has Pretense.. personally I do and a lot of women pretend that they’re very understanding, loving and caring when new in a relationship, but as time passes, men get to see the other side of them. In the beginning, they try to pretend only later to become their real selves. Men don’t like it when women put on a show or pretend to be something they’re not. Men hate crocodile ones. They often say sorry not because they are but because they want our peace back. So, be yourself. This also brings up another issue of fake orgasms. They want you to be just who you are, at all times. Let him know if you’re not satisfied with his performance. It is better to faking satisfaction, only to seek satisfaction else way.

Women love jumping to conclusions to prove themselves right. Don’t make any assumption that you don’t have enough information to make. It bugs men when women falsely assume something that ends up being different from what they thought. It is more reasonable to play it save. Have an open mind. This will save both of you from unnecessary disagreements.

Spying is the art of every girl is know and they all claim to be perfect in the skills they practice. Love makes women want to know everything about their man. Men don’t love a woman who is too possessive because it means you distrust him. Some women go through their partners’ phones, drawer, and suits’ pockets searching for evidence of another woman. Ask questions if you feel all is not well. You might read a wrong meaning to simple text message. Don’t make checking his phone, going through his drawer and his suits’ pockets a regular habit. Men are more comfortable in a relationship when they get some space. Most women love keeping an eye on every move that they make but this is like making him feel that he’s in a cage. Of course, if your partner has betrayed you in the past, you’ll find it difficult to trust him.

Men hate it when women ask one question over and over again, and in spite of their answer, repeat the question another ten times. Men like women with confidence, who can decide for themselves and not have to ask all and sundry about how they look or what to do about situations they are faced with all the time. Its normally confusing because it difficult to differentiate between “lack of confidence’ and those who just “talk too much’ Talking too much is hardly a man-pleasing habit. Many men won’t admit to being put off by this mannerism, but they will build up resentment toward you. Men prefer to maintain their silence. So to keep your man happy, don’t keep your tongue wagging all the time. Use your tongue sparingly; only when you have sometime important to say. Do not bring up your partners past transgressions over and over; men don’t like it.

He can’t stand it when you talk endingly on the phone with your friends. And even when he’s in the same room as you, you have no problem discussing him with them. It might boost his ego when you first met. It could make him feel really important that you talk about him to your friends. But after a while it really started to irritate him because he will feel you lack the sense of privacy. Some women are too flirtatious. You should not flirt with your partner’s friends. If you have such habit, tone it down. This at times goes to talking about past lovers. They are Exs and that’s it. Men hate this as much as most women dislike men doing same. Bearing this in mind, if you happen to land up at the same dinner party as your ex, there is no need to reveal this. Avoid inviting past lovers whom you may now describe as “good friends” to meet your husband. He’ll hate it. And don’t compare him to your ex; there is a good reason why he is the ex.

So there you have it; I know people are different but let me hope this list makes the world a better place for all men and women everywhere.

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