Drowning in Your Own Pain, Team Mafisi Exposed on Social Media.
I might get a lot of heat for this article, but seriously we have to do better. We are letting our women run wild. No more respect, no trust, and more importantly no control. Just the other day, I read about the team mafisi scandal and I was shocked. It wasn’t because of what he did; it was because of how he was caught. His career as a businessman is now in the grave, all because he was being a man and he had no control or trust with the women he dealt with. The fact that the women he was dealing with put him out there like that looks horrible on his part.
It’s his job to have his women in “check” especially if he is doing things outside his marriage/relationship. A fact that was demonstrated on the fateful day and in this case he definitely didn’t have a tight leash on them. A thing with team mafisi member when they get too much comfortable among the flock around him.
Now you’re probably wondering what I mean by having his woman/women in check or on a tight leash. (Please don’t take that literally) First and foremost, when I say “in check,” I mean be a man, show some driving power. Last I checked we were the dominant species. They are out to get theirs and that’s it. This is why we have to establish that dominance and control. We have to let them know who is boss.
Even team mafisi member, at the end of the day he is at fault for not determining how loyal these women can be in the beginning stages of the relationships. It’s our jobs as team mafisi to make sure we have our relationships under control. We have to make sure we gain our respect, gain their trust, and have that control. You should be able to send whatever you want to her without having to worrying about it hitting the net. Whatever you’re sending should be understood that it is for her viewing pleasure only.
Well let’s take a moment and analyze this situation. It’s already hard enough for people to fully trust their partner and now their partner has a best friend who is of the opposite species this makes it a lot more interesting. I honestly think it’s amazing to have a best friend of the opposite species, as long as both individuals are clear that this is strictly a friendship and nothing more. It’s also to the advantage of both individuals in the friendship, they both can learn more about the opposite sex through each other. I’m not saying go out and get one, but if you already have one then cool. It creates a healthy relationship with not only your friend, but with your partner as well. Thou am not in any way encouraging or discouraging the platonic relationship, it my opinion only. It bet that having a close friend with the clear cut vision and mission shows your maturity and dedication as a person to someone, that is definitely a good thing.
That’s a question you have to ask yourself, it is good to ask and know about that person and how well do I know her. Always be truthful about it, the trust has to be there and this will help your partner become more comfortable with the situation.
In conclusion, we have to do better guys. If we have our side chicks or whatever you call them, let’s not give them total control of the relationship. Don’t forget that you are in charge. Be confident if you decide to send explicit pictures to her without worrying about it hitting the net. Be smart as well, you will always have those disloyal ones out there too. Think a step ahead. Put that leash on her. You should be in total control, not the opposite. Well let’s take a moment and analyze this situation. Who is losing it here is it the Men or Women? It’s for you conclude.