10 Ways to Keep Your Man Heels Over Head After You.
In a number of my articles I have dealt with men, giving them tips of how to stay on top of the game. I’m not a relationship expert, girls, but being one of them I do know of some pretty effective ways for making your guy stick around, such as how to make him want you more around the clock.
Guys are of a different breed, so remember they think completely different than women do. Thus what you think may be the best approach may be completely opposite of what is going to work to charm him and keep him wanting you. A person who wants you will want more than just your sexual affection, but will want to spend more time with you just for being you. Just by simple definition.
I promise, they not only work miracles, but also will keep him heels over head running after you.
- Show your “Natural You”
Believe it or not, as fun as it is to get all dolled up for your guy, one of the best ways on how to make him want you more is to go more natural. Use less hair products, don’t wear crazy makeup, and don’t feel like you have to wear makeup all the time around him.
Guys like to see you get dressed up, but they also prefer your natural side more than they do like you being dressed up all the time, or wearing a full face of makeup around the clock, unless you are headed out for a night in town, go more natural. Portraying your real self as you want him to love and appreciate you.
- Don’t Try Too Hard
It can be so easy when you are nervous to try a little harder to make a guy want you. Instead of trying to follow his steps to show him you care just send him cards, texts, or other things to let him know you’re thinking about him. That way he will feel wanted than stacked,
Tend to express yourself through your words but don’t overload him with how much you’re into him. You can let him know in subtle ways without chasing him or trying too hard. Guys like to know that girls are relaxed around them and comfortable enough around them. Bottom line Men hate a nag, and a whiny girl, so never, ever resort to either of these habits and expect to get positive results.
- Don’t Appear Too High Expensive.
Unless you are a celebrity, do not think you have to dress a certain way or provide a certain dollar amount of value in the relationship, keeping up with a woman’s beauty or material maintenance can make a guy lose interest very quickly.
They can also lose their interest in you because they feel like you need too much fashion to deal with. While it’s fine to want nice things or look nice, find a happy medium so you keep it safe.
- Seek Your Attention.
If you’re out to eat or see a movie, one of the best ways to make your guy want you more is to let him do most of the work. Let him grab your hand, steal a kiss, or open the door for you. Let him know you expect these things by not being the first one to make all the moves.
Also, when you get home from a date, don’t text him right away, but let him text or call you instead. If he doesn’t, wait until the next day. Don’t go chasing him if he doesn’t even have the courtesy to call you after a date. He’s not worth your time; trust me!
- Don’t Call Him First
Once again girls, this rule is golden of the thumb, “Never call a guy first” It implies you’re more into him than he is to you, and guys actually prefer to do the work in the early parts of a relationship. But remember if you feel that his life is in danger, and these feeling are common among couple calling him is a good thing.
- Be Human around His Buddies
If you can’t stand your man’s friend, it can be hard to pull this trick off, but you must, No guy wants to see a girl be rude to his friend. Remember just like we would stick up for our girlfriend, they will stick up for male friend too.
They might put up with you being rude to their friends for a while, but not for long, I promise they believe the same way you will treat and respect their family and co-workers. It implies you are respectful of them by you showing courtesy to people in their lives.
- Jealous Won’t Work With Guys, Be Confident
This one can be tough, especially if you’ve had a number of guys snatched from you before. No matter how hard it is, you can’t be too jealous of anyone in a relationship. Instead let your confidence in the relationship fight for you.
If he gives you a reason to doubt him, then you may want to question if being in the relationship is best for you period. If you’re not sure, don’t confront him until you have enough evidence to prove him guilty, or it will only make you seem like the bad girl.
Some situations might be much unprecedented but pulling off in the right way will make him more crazy about you. e.g. If other girls flirt with your guy in front of you, it would be wise as hard as it may be, instead of acting jealous, smile at her, extend your hand and introduce yourself as his girlfriend, kindness kills, sweetie! We all find confidence, not cocky, people because it’s an attractive quality. Guys don’t want a timid girl that is always talking down and doubting herself. Confidence is sexy!
- Make Him Laugh
Guys love a girl who can make them laugh, just like we do! When you can make a guy laugh, he’ll be interested in your personality and make him want to spend more time around you. Part of making a guy want you is having him want to spend more time with you, is being a source of happiness and laughter so make a funny joke. Do not be afraid to poke fun at yourself and definitely don’t be afraid to poke fun at him.
- Make Plans without Him
Don’t be so available for him; guys don’t want a girl that is always around because there is no desire left in that. If you make plans with your friends and he wants to see you, he might feel a little let down but he’ll ask again. He wants to spend time with you already so leave him hanging every once in a while. This will make him want you even more.
- Be Mysterious
Don’t reveal everything about yourself right away. This includes your body as well as your personality. If they know what they’re getting right away, then there is no fun in that for him. Don’t dress too revealing, just sexy enough to make him look.